How to buy gifts for problem people

How to buy gifts for problem people

There's one in every family - that frustrating person who is simply impossible to buy for. Perhaps they're an ungracious receiver, narrow in their range of interest, or maybe they really do have it all. Whatever the case, here are a few tips for getting around the ultimate present-buying conundrum.


1. Go generic:

For the person who has everything, a generic gift is often the only option. Avoid clichés by putting a twist on the standard theme - buying them a wine subscription rather than a bottle of bubbly, for example, or sending flowers to their home or work instead of picking them up from the local petrol station. Interflora do a great range of bouquets which will make even the most hardened gift cynic feel special.

2. Give them an ethical gift:

If you really can't think of an acceptable gift, then perhaps it's time to take a different approach. Instead of agonizing over what they might like, spend the money on an 'alternative' present such as an animal adoption pack or a registered charity donation. You'll give them a feel-good glow, as well as scoring points for thoughtfulness.

3. It takes two:

The best gift that you can give somebody is time. Buy them something that the two of you can do together, such as a day out, tickets to an event or joint membership to an organisation like the National Trust. As an added perk, you'll get to enjoy the benefits of your gift too.

4. Put some work in:

Forget splashing your cash on an expensive present. Instead, give them something that only you can give. Cook a fabulous slap-up meal for two, put together an album of meaningful photographs or redecorate their house while they're away. Using your own skills to create the perfect gift is a great way to put a smile on their face without spending a fortune.

5. Ask them:

Some people consider it bad form, but really one of the simplest ways to get around the problem person gift conundrum is simply to ask them what they'd like. If it's a special occasion such as a birthday or Christmas then you can feel justified in asking for a wish list. If not - well, perhaps now is the time to re-circulate that ancient box of chocolate liqueurs.